Feminist Conversations is a new feature at Feminist For Choice. We are sitting down and to chat with fellow activists to find out what kind of rabble they’re rousing in their neck of the woods.Peggy Cooke is a Canadian pro-choice activist. She works as the volunteer coordinator/office assistant at the Morgentaler Clinic in Fredericton, New Brunswick, and volunteers as a media spokesperson for the Abortion Rights Coalition of Canada. In her spare time she enjoys feminist gumboot dancing, cuddling with cats, and tearing down the patriarchy. She regularly blogs at Anti-Choice is Anti-Awesome. I caught up with her over the weekend to ask her a few questions about what feminist activism means to her.
1. When did you first call yourself a feminist, and what influenced that decision?
I like to say I was raised feminist. I honestly don’t remember when the word first entered my day-to-day vocabulary, and I had no “a-ha!” moment where I said, yes, I am a feminist. My mother is a feminist and she models that worldview in everything she does. I basically just followed her lead without realizing that it isn’t an outlook that everyone gets in childhood.
Eventually of course I started developing a feminist lens of my own, and my mum and I don’t always see eye to eye on some of the standard stuff that I think divides a lot of second and third wave feminists. Like trans issues, intersectionality, and all that. Not that she isn’t open to it, but it’s a whole educating/passing the torch process. My mum started me on the feminist path, but then my influences were mainly women’s studies classes, and now it is feminist blogs, in a big way. I didn’t know what privilege was, or intersectionality, or how to be an ally, until I started reading blogs.
2. What does feminism mean to you?
To me feminism means, simply, equality. But I really see things through that intersectional lens, so it can’t just be gender equality. Gender equality is useless without everything else, and I don’t think it will be achieved in a vacuum. All oppressions intersect and so my feminism HAS to include other marginalized groups. Feminism is an idea that for me, is constantly evolving. I am new to the concept of kyriarchy and while it makes sense to me, it is really an overwhelming idea to digest. So I’m working on that.
3. What types of feminist activism are you engaged in?
My big issue at this point in my life is reproductive rights. A lot of the real nitty-gritty activism I do is centerd around abortion. I do a lot of the standard “second wave” style activism: media interviews, protests and rallies, that kind of thing. But I also am trying to expand the ways I can use the internet as an activism tool. Social networking kind of blows my mind. I realize a lot of it is problematic for a lot of reasons, but I love it. I love how it connects us. Right now the most time I spend on activism is spent writing for blogs and making connections with people over the internet.
There are a lot of other types of feminist activism I am interested in, but I’m not really *doing* right now. I’m just trying to learn all I can so I can be a good ally. Gender identity and trans issues are huge for me right now. I’m also very interested in cultural appropriation. And a lot of big ideas like nationalism and global capitalism. There is so much going on right now, it’s overwhelming. But really exciting at the same time. I feel so lucky to live in an age where people who are historically marginalized are able to have a voice and reach a huge audience through the internet. I am learning so much.
4. What has been your best feminist activism to date, and what was it that made it successful?
Without question, my blog. I started it when I was a volunteer clinic escort, just to blow off steam and to give myself a space to debrief. But I tapped into a need I didn’t realize existed. I live in a province that has illegal restrictions on abortion, and ours is one of the few clinics in Canada that gets regularly picketed. There are a lot of problems with access here. And most people don’t know! So when I started writing the blog, people were just shocked to know how hard it is for women in New Brunswick to access abortion. My blog became a place where people could find out what was really happening every day to women here.
The impact of the blog has been incredible. It has helped me to recruit new volunteers, it has put me in touch with other activists and led to so many opportunities for me. Writing is one thing that I know I can do well, so being able to use that skill to raise awareness about the situation here and to make tangible changes is so amazing. Not everybody gets an opportunity like that, and I am grateful for it every day.
5. People often say, “you can’t be a feminist if . . .” What is one of your “secret indulgences” that you love, despite the feminist contradictions?
So many things! Really, I can’t get behind that “you can’t be a feminist if…” mentality. I don’t feel that anyone should be the gatekeeper of feminism. It is an accessible philosophy and should stay that way. And no one is perfect. We are all coping with something, and we are all trying to exist within an oppressive system. We do what we can to get by.
That said, there is a lot of “unfeminist” stuff that I love. The main thing I think all my friends would say about me would be Hello Kitty. I know the whole concept of her is totally infantile and silly – also, how creepy is it that she doesn’t have a mouth! – but I just love her. Another big one would be beauty pageants. I don’t know why. And in terms of day-to-day stuff, I love a lot of super cliche romcoms, and I like the way my legs feel when I shave them (plus all the millions of other ways I conform to the female beauty standard). But whatever. In the end, I think you always just have to follow your heart.
Thanks so much to Peggy for participating in our Feminist Conversations, and for all the great work she is doing in New Brunswick. If you would like to participate in the discussion, please leave us a comment below, or send an e-mail to serena@feministsforchoice.com.