The Unresolvable Paradox by Violet Socks, at Reclusive Leftist 10:56 am / 14 February 2010
When long-time commenters write to tell me they’re confused, then I know that what we have here is a failure to communicate. The topic in question is Sarah Palin (who else?), and the scene of confusion is this thread.
So let me quote part of what I emailed to one commenter:
What drove me crazy about the third-wavers, which I guess I didn’t articulate well enough, was their insistence that feminism could only possibly be an attribute of far left liberals. People said things like “of course Hillary isn’t a feminist! She’s too mainstream!” It drove me nuts.
Regarding the “faux feminist freakazoid”: I should probably clarify that I was talking about being “on the road” to that — because in my mind, the end point of this kind of thinking is that you (not you personally) turn into Amanda Marcotte. Which is actually what I almost said, and substituted fff for that rather than name names.
The point I keep trying to make is that feminism is very simply about women’s equality. There are conservative feminists, liberal feminists, communist feminists, libertarian feminists, etc. — and that’s just on our western political landscape.
The other point I keep trying to make is that both policy and representation matter in the business of ending isms. It’s ideal if a political candidate combines both — which is why Hillary was great. But this is not always going to be the case. Which is what we have with Palin.
People keep trying to resolve the paradox, but it’s not resolvable.
I see this almost irresistible urge to resolve the paradox from both sides. People who detest Palin’s politics seem to feel compelled to conclude that she’s also a bust in terms of representation — she’s no good for women in any way at all, not a feminist, certainly not a role model, that her election wouldn’t represent anything special, that her running for office isn’t anything special, etc., etc.
On the other side, people who acknowledge Palin’s role as a representative and pathbreaker seem to feel compelled to conclude that her politics are also good — or at least okay, or at least not too bad.
In both cases, I think what’s really going on is that people are trying to resolve the paradox. But you can’t do it. As I said in the thread (and yes, I’m just going to quote myself here because I don’t have time this afternoon to write out a whole essay):
It’s entirely possible for a woman’s political aspirations to represent a blow for feminism (trying to be the first woman president) while her political positions spell bad news in other respects (which is true of most of what Palin espouses, in my opinion).
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Things frequently have mixed results. Especially when we’re talking about something like ending racism or sexism or other isms, where both representation and policy matter.
Barack Obama, for example, is not doing much for Black America in terms of his policies. But that doesn’t mean that his election — the election of the first black president — didn’t represent a triumph of a sort. It was good thing in the sense of breaking barriers, etc.
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I think that for the most part, the black community is better at recognizing that racial equality is a thing unto itself — better, I mean, than women are at understanding feminism. At least women today, in our post-Second Wave era.
There’s this attitude nowadays — and it really became painfully apparently in 2008 — that feminism is a subset of liberal Democratic politics. And if you’re not a liberal Democrat, or you don’t ascribe to that whole agenda, then you can’t possibly be a feminist. Which is just ridiculous.
Feminism means equality for women. It’s vastly bigger and simpler than some bullet point on the DNC platform. You can be a feminist and be an Inuit seal hunter, for chrissake. You can be a feminist and be a Peruvian miner or a Nicaraguan nun or a Chinese office worker. Or an American member of the GOP.
The civil rights movement in this country maintained a focus on racial equality that allowed — and still allows — everyone to ascribe to it, regardless of their other political beliefs. Most black folks may roll their eyes at Michael Steele, but they’re not going to say, “well, he doesn’t really believe in racial equality. He doesn’t really believe in civil rights. In fact, he’d re-institute slavery if he could!” You can argue that Michael Steele is not doing anything for black folks and the GOP is a joke, etc., or even that he’s a craven opportunist — but you’ll still acknowledge that in his own way, he obviously believes in civil rights.
For some reason, women can’t seem to do that. It’s all or nothing. Don’t like Sarah Palin? Hate her Republican politics? Fine. But for heaven’s sake, you can still acknowledge that in her own way, she obviously believes in equal rights and considers herself a feminist. Even if you think the disastrous effects of her politics would outweigh any glass ceiling-breaking she might contribute.
But no — instead we get people claiming, like Jessica Valenti, that Palin is against everything feminism stands for. Everything!
Or even worse, people saying that she can’t be a feminist because she doesn’t like polar bears or something. For heaven’s sake. They’re separate things.
It’s ironic to me that I, of all people, should have to keep pointing this out. Ironic because I personally am extremely liberal. Far left radical feminist. But feminism is not just a subset of my political agenda. It’s one of the fundamental questions of human existence.




